Sitemap - 2024 - Sex and the State
Cheers to a (California) sober 2025
Western masculinity as Chinese foot binding
Why I keep talking about “bottom-half” men
Cathy reads books: Tribalism is Dumb
Self-serving bias, ingroup bias, and what the left forgets about bottom-half men
Bottom-half marriage is a completely different institution
Abolishing gender is not transphobic!
Us feminists really did kill marriage
How the gender pay gap gave me empathy for men
Why “the media” misleads everyone about feminism
Fear makes men stupid and anti-feminist
I am the solution to polarization
The Sex and the State 2024 Holiday Gift Guide
Radical feminism is not the most feminist kind of feminism
Two reasons to care about boys and men
Why I buy the male victimhood narrative
Being a problem is better than Xanax
Too many of you care too much about sex
What I learned from being a nanny for a week
The New York Times is lowkey anti-gender
A shockingly ignorant timeline
I was wrong about bottom-half men causing low fertility
Most women don't realize how much dating sucks for men
Spend time with people you like and want to emulate
Can we all just agree that it's weird and dumb that we still have girl jobs and boy jobs?
Demand for male breadwinners exceeds supply
We are all very ignorant about every aspect of abuse
The main difference between a fantasy and a plan
Marriage lets society wash our hands of our worst men
Conservatives are doomed to long for what they think is history
GOP policy innovation: Let's screw the poor and the economy
Maybe marriage is down because men are getting worse
Eleven years after “The Rise of the Matriarchy”
What Peter Thiel and J.D. Vance have in common with rural incels
Men are struggling to adapt to female hegemony
When companies act like states
Activism update: September 2024
Maybe sex is to gender as skin color is to race
Fun facts about 45+, non-college white women in battleground states
Sex and gender are different. And it matters
What's the point of masculinity?
The asshole theory of fertility
I'm a radical firebrand for basic economic literacy
Top-level thoughts on the 2024 DNC
Watch men lose status to women in five charts
I'm trying to understand liberalism's assumptions
Is fear-based messaging effective?
How status anxiety fuels misogyny
What the abortion fight really means
On queerness and southern cities
Kamala Harris is a normal Republican
Parental age might explain why boys and men are failing
TFW the worst person you know makes a good point
Growth is required, if not good
Here's where I'm supposed to have a take
Stop promoting women (who aren't me) part 2
Stop promoting women (who aren't me) part 1
Lessons in gender discrimination: The Apple lawsuit
Lefties and Democrats: It's time to embrace power
The (reader survey) results are in!
Bay Area people have figured a few things out
Mo success, different problems
Happy Juneteenth. The job isn't done.
Why I had meeting at the White House
Modeling was absolutely the dream
I was wrong about geographic mobility
On drinking, driving, and loneliness
The best form of demon exorcise is the one you actually do
"One very passionate resident"
Happy Pride! Gay sex is boring
I spent the currency of youth, and I enjoyed it
Marx has a few words for the pro-shrinkage community
Getting back to my Diaryland roots
Rural defense team: Crime part 2
My parents were amazing, actually
5 things to look for when choosing where to raise your kids
Where you raise your kids really matters
Breaking: US rural life is diverse
Rural life sucks part 6: Driving
Rural life sucks part 5: Employment
Mental health in modern agriculture, a documentary review: Part 2
Mental health in modern agriculture, a documentary review
Absolutely killing it at being sad
Controversial opinion: Social conservatives aren't bad
Hell and prison fail for the same reason
Breaking: People use religion for vain, dumb, selfish ends
Rural life sucks, part 5: Local journalism
Rural life sucks, part 4: Governance
Rural life sucks, part 3: Environment
Rural life sucks, part 2: Health
Rural life sucks, part 1: Defining our terms
The case for shifting away from politics and toward policy
Drain the swamp? Drain the sticks.
How K-12 helps explain how rural America came to suck
The Kingdom, the Power, and the Whoring
I am biased about Evangelical extremism
The case for admitting when I'm wrong
The case for marrying someone you vibe with
Kitty Stryker on the limits of "consent culture"
Thots on the Oxford school shooter parents going to prison
Rape in sex-positive, feminist spaces
Misogyny and the Political Divide
My parents were good, actually
Authoritarianism is not a mental illness
Cathy Reisenwitz on Authoritarianism and the Psychology of Power
Does this outfit make you feel rapey?
My cognitive dissonance got louder than my survival instinct
It's not personal until it's personal
I didn't misunderstand. That shit really happened.
Racism and sexism, status games, and affirmative action
Unpopular opinion: More rape for less gay sex is a bad trade
Josh Hawley is why I'm a technocrat
Explaining the Evangelical church’s relationship to rape and rapists
Democracy needs a little less participation
Authoritarians and their shitty childhoods
Is authoritarianism inherently anti-social?
Authoritarians and the games they play
More evidence linking Evangelical Christianity with belief in female idiocy, etc.
How Evangelical Christianity facilitates belief in female idiocy
How dumb women contribute to rural female brain drain and belief in female idiocy
Belief in female idiocy explains the urban/rural divide
H4H 28: We’re moving in a new direction
Monogamy stans stay obsessed with sex
How my moral intuitions have evolved
H4H 27: More than you ever wanted to know about guardianships
Cash rules less around me than I realized
A thot with thoughts on syphilis
I am not one of those marketers (mournfully)
The argument for ass whoopings > prison
H4H 25: Guy Sotomayor on what exactly the Madison County Commission Chairman does
You're not really fighting about cat licking
A brief primer on medical misogyny
H4H 24: We respond to your comments!
Are environmental contaminants making us less hornt?
Why were the 90’s hornier than today?
For the last fucking time, hookup culture is a myth
Why I am not an environmentalist
A post-labor society is the ultimate cure for male drift
What will Ozempic mean for thin people?
H4H 23: Jordan Neely died for want of a conservatorship
I'm sorry, can we reschedule this mental breakdown?
We both err, but in opposite directions
H4H 22: Rika Shipley on Huntsville Police and homelessness
TV Tuesdays 51: Molly and the music visualizer
“Protestant work ethic” is out. Vibe popes are in.
Why psychedelics effectively treat depression
My Thoughts on...ahem...Tripping Balls