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KD the Magnificent's avatar

How can we show young, losery men that they have intrinsic value? Easy. We don't. Just look at the messaging that got women to conform to patriarchy. Sure, there was SOME 'there's value in staying at home, making husband happy makes you happy.....' but it was mostly just 'do it because you don't have any other choices'. That simple. Marry because that's the only path to securing resources, because men are hording it. Do what your husband wants or he hits you. And then women mostly did the work of convincing themselves they liked their lot. So, yeah, guys are losing their status in society right now because society is valuing and paying more feminine coded skills better than traditionally masculine ones. That trend is just going to increase. And women won't need to market to men why they need to get in line, the economy will do that for them. Men must choose to take on a more active parenting and domestic role, or get dumped. Younger boys will look at the men who take on more domestic and empathetic roles having better lives than men who live alone in the woods and gripe and younger boys will have better behaviors modeled to them. Right now, in this transitional period, there will be people who cannot evolve and are upset about that, but that was true in every generation since the beginning of humanity. Some men struggled to transition to the industrialized economy in the 1800s. Some struggled to integrate back into society post the World Wars. Some people will always wash out. There's only so much catering to those we should do, and in general it's simply not good policy to making 'aligning with the losers' a policy concern.

Women are over half of the US voting population. And over half the world. As modern tech and science gets better, the status of women globally will continue to improve. I don't think women need to focus on winning over loser men. We can out vote them, and they can evolve or expire. The thing I'm more interested in is how to deprogram the women who are still so male centered they will vote against their own interests and rights. The Handmaids. Those I think can be swayed through a conscious effort, those women are the more obviously illogical. Women need to adjust to the new world order of their increasing dominance, and a big part of it is spending less time thinking, 'but what do men want?'. That's subordinate's thinking. 'What do women want?' was mostly treated as a punchline in men's circles for hundreds of years. Because men in power knew they didn't need to persuade women, they could compel women. So I say the same to women now. Stop acting like you need to persuade men. Stop thinking you need to make an emotional appeal. To care about their pain. Stop being a bleeding heart for men who absolutely were not that for women's issues. Just continue to succeed, let the men who are butthurt about that be butthurt, and the chips will fall where they may.

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Robert Taylor's avatar

Isn’t there a shortage of pilots,air traffic control controllers, electricians, plumbers truck drivers and construction workers , based on that alone, and the fact that those jobs pay 80 to 120k. I think Democrats would be better off selling that, than victimhood. Even Black Males are starting to reject victimhood even though there the main demographic that would appeal to.

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