Sitemap - 2023 - Sex and the State
The two most beautiful things I experienced in 2023
We need to talk about Javier Milei's dogs
Sex and the State's most-loved of 2023
Why I'm afraid of taking people's money
Thoughts on Javier Milei from a former libertarian
H4H 20: The Huntsville Housing Authority's untold history
Trafficking hysteria as rape fantasy
Beat loneliness by fighting with your friends
H4H 19: Homelessness in Huntsville: No, it’s not mental health
TV Tuesdays 48: A Murder at the End of the World
What gets me out of bed in the morning
The moms for whom parenthood is easiest enjoy it least
H4H 18: Housing racism 101: Notes on The Color of Law
TV Tuesdays 47: A Murder at the End, Gilded Age, Golden Bachelor finale
What happened to the GOP and conservatism since I left Alabama
H4H pod 16: Mike Tanner on five policies that actually reduce homelessness
TV Tuesdays 46: Napoleon and other Ghosts
One weird trick for reducing sexual assault in churches
My eyeball has me thinking more about rest
H4H Pod bonus ep: Mike Tanner on 5 policies that actually solve homelessness
H4H Pod ep 16: Why is one unit of subsidized housing $400,000 in Huntsville?
TV Tuesdays 45: A very special R&C
Crying to the Afghan Whigs outside the housing summit
Activism update: New podcast appearance
H4H Pod ep 15: Remus Bowden on housing racism
TV Tuesdays 44: A very special R&C
The Parts I am inclined to push away
Alanis Morissette and No Bad Parts
H4H Pod ep 14: Public input and why Mill Creek needs more units
TV Tuesdays 43: Avast, ye mateys!
The two kinds of people who most need therapy
H4H Pod ep 13: Eshan Pokhrel, co-founder of PB Political
TV Tuesdays 42: We've been busy (watching three shows)
Sex and the most secure attachment yet
H4H Pod ep 12: Mill Creek, public housing, and radon
TV Tuesdays 41: Our Flag Means Death Season 1
Maybe my dead grandma was autistic?
H4H Pod ep 11: Elijah Boyd on the special election for Alabama house district 10
TV Tuesdays 40: The Golden Bachelor
When you should quit your startup
H4H Pod ep 10: Joy Johnson on Huntsville politics and progressivism
Loneliness may not be an epidemic, but it’s a very real problem
H4H Pod ep 9: There’s a better way to provide affordable housing in District 5
TV Tuesdays 38: The rest of Fleishman is in Trouble
Shame, obesity, and The Girlfriends
Science: Never marry a man who's skinnier than you
H4H Pod ep 8: The new Huntsville Sustainability Commission’s ideal number-one priority
TV Tuesdays 37: Fleishman is in Trouble
The non-zoning parts of Martha's Vineyard part 1
Reading zoning ordinances on vacation
Housing for Huntsvillians ep 7: Murray Edmondson
No R&C Watch TV bc I'm on vacation!
Housing for Huntsvillians ep 6: Jaxon Tolbert
Why do I want to feel abundance about money?
I actually won at therapy this week
The relationship I want to have with money
New Housing for Huntsvillians: The Podcast
TV Tuesdays 36: Girls, girls, girls (& a Star Trek)
Our first Housing for Huntsvillians Podcast interview
TV Tuesdays 35: Solar Opposites Season 4
One weird trick for improving every aspect of your life
My moral responsibilities as a podcaster
TV Tuesdays 34: One last Queen Charlotte & The Bear
My whole life I’ve focused on knowing things
TV Tuesdays 33: Ted Lasso Season 3 part 3 & Queen Charlotte
Friday diary 46: I'm quitting my job. My coworkers suck.
Introducing: Housing for Huntsvillians
Obsessing over Huntsville homelessness
TV Tuesdays 32: Ted Lasso Season 3 part 2
Welcome to the neoliberal fold, AOC
Learning 2 organize in D.C. - day 2 of NLAS
TV Tuesdays 31: Ted Lasso Season 3
Learning 2 organize in D.C. - day 1 of NLAS
Friday diary 44: I'm on vacation
5 potential reasons fertility is down
TV Tuesdays 30: The Sound of Freedom
Jonah Hill's "boundaries" are, in practice, misogynistic as all hell
Friday diary 43: How to catch and keep a man
The ACAB case for saying her name
The ACAB case for punishing police obfuscation
TV Tuesdays 29: Silo season one ep two
The ACAB case for public police records
Friday diary 42: Inhabiting my excellence
The ACAB case for community policing
The ACAB case against proactive policing
The ACAB case for hiring more officers
The ACAB case for paying cops more
The ACAB case for weaksauce police reform
TV Tuesdays 27: Shiny Happy People
Happy Juneteenth. Slavery is still legal and happening in the US.
Friday diary 40: I have a boyfriend
Cathy reads books: Manhood by Sen Josh Hawley
Having kids doesn't make people happier
TV Tuesdays 26: Evangelical Christianity and AI
I’m a neoliberal and this is bad neoliberalism
Friday diary 39: Taking time off? What a concept
One reason the left stays losing
Posing naked for David Nuttall
Friday diary 38: How I did some cool shit
Perhaps not so happy Men's Health Month
For the last fucking time, hookup culture is a myth
TV Tuesdays 24: 60 Songs, The Chicks Earl
Criticizing the military industrial complex isn’t anti-veteran
Friday diary 37: Rupture and repair
Potentially good news for marriage?
Fuck, and I do mean fuck, AI licensure
TV Tuesdays 23: Succession Season 4
Yet another reason to decriminalize work: More babies
Friday diary 36: Getting pumped and dumped
Intensive parenting is about the economy, stupid
Cathy reads books: Man's Search for Meaning
Worry less about teen sex and more about teen loneliness
Science doesn't know how common cheating is, and my personal experience
Why US kids don’t know their history
Friday diary 34: Esther Perel is the GOAT
Cathy reads books: The Long Loneliness
Yet another reason to decriminalize work: Less crime
TV Tuesdays 20: Blood, Sex, and Royalty
It's not trauma it's sparkling sexual stigma
The problem isn't poverty. It's precarity.
The Council of Economic Advisers better watch their asses
TV Tuesdays 19: The Last of Us
Friday diary 32: Not being his girlfriend is easier
Why men are lonelier than women
TV Tuesdays 18: The CIA and JKF
So I'm doing this Notes thing and you should too
How legalizing sex work impacts sex trafficking
I'm sorry! "Every lonely soul processes the world in their own idiosyncratic way" is an outline!
Every lonely soul processes the world in their own idiosyncratic way
TV Tuesdays 17: Child labor laws are ruining this country
What do you want me to do about it?
Friday diary 30: My first trip back to San Francisco
AI ain't threatening the real intellectuals
Derek Thompson is missing a key driver of teen anxiety
How US urban planning legislates loneliness
Friday diary 29: Who the hell is this for?
How a sweaty armpit can alleviate loneliness
Cathy reads books: Scout Mindset
Compulsory monogamy as sexual socialism for mediocre men
Actually, monogamous folks are way more sex-obsessed
Friday diary 28: Sex work thots
Another reason to decriminalize work
Is anyone ever really single by choice?
TV Tuesdays 13: Circus of ex-truckers
Democrats can serve Black voters by holding cops accountable
Friday diary 27: How Courage the asshole roommate helped me realize I'm lonely
Let's do housing racism reparations
Book club: Reclaiming the Mainstream
TV Tuesdays 12: Can a robot be a friend?
Instead of barring Black people, let anyone practice law
Friday diary 26: He's my partner but I’m not his
How to help men: AI for loneliness
How to help men: Decriminalize ALL work
TV Tuesdays 11: Slut-shaming shows, Nazi podcasters, and the truth
Cathy reads books: The Masculinity Manifesto
Friday diary 25: I got dumped and could really take or leave being in love again
Cathy reads books: Warriors and Worriers
TV Tuesdays 10: The Good Fight
Cathy reads books: Tomorrow, Sex Will Be Good Again
Friday diary 24: I am being a scared little bitch right now
Why smoke shows marry bags of dirty socks among church folk
One weird trick to help men without hurting women
WTF, I'm debating legalizing sex work at Lewis & Clark
Friday diary 23: Social exclusion
Am I happier for all this effort?
Friday diary 22: The first boodahole I ever ate
How to be happier in 3 simple steps
Will moving to a dense, walkable city make you less lonely? It depends.
Friday diary 21: I am not a particularly embodied person
Maybe everything really is trauma
Why men don't help out around the house
The real reason so many women have given up on dating
Friday diary 20: I really do not miss San Francisco
Men don't make politics worse. Brains do.
How to alleviate loneliness with MDMA
TV Tuesdays 5: Ginny, Georgia, teen sex, class, and secrets
Friday diary 19: Free will is hidden in the pause
Is American education biased against boys and men?
TV Tuesdays 4: Two things I loathe about the US government
Controversial sex take: Practice is overrated
Friday diary 18: The worst thing about dating me
Loneliness, boys, and Andrew Tate