Dear Listener,
It is my pleasure to introduce you to the brilliant and multi-faceted Cathy Reisenwitz in this week's episode. Cathy is the creator of the thought-provoking Substack publication, Sex and the State, where she writes about the intersection of sexuality and politics. With a mission to fight loneliness through vulnerability, Cathy's writing has been featured in an impressive array of media outlets, including TechCrunch, The Week, VICE, and the Daily Beast.
I have added her Substack to my list of recommended publications and urge you all to follow her if this message resonates with you.
In our discussion, Cathy contrasts authoritarianism, which involves zero- and negative-sum games that inevitably lead to winners and losers, with the liberal approach, which seeks to create positive-sum outcomes that benefit everyone.
Authoritarian personalities, therefore, are inherently antisocial. Yet Cathy emphasizes the importance of empathy in bridging the divide between these two worldviews and finding common ground to promote constructive dialogue:
"What differentiates an authoritarian from a liberal, I don't think is selfishness. I think both authoritarians and liberals can be equally selfish. What differentiates an authoritarian from a liberal is who is included in the self." – Cathy Reisenwitz
We also discuss Cathy's passion for grassroots activism in Huntsville, Alabama, where she has been a vocal advocate for affordable housing—working to eliminate homelessness and create a more inclusive community. Her insights underscore the power of small-scale initiatives to drive meaningful progress.
Finally, our conversation touches on the impact of women's economic empowerment on sexual dynamics and gender equality. As women's incomes continue to rise relative to men's, Cathy suggests that we may also witness a decrease in the “orgasm gap,” as women feel more empowered to demand fulfilling sexual encounters. This shift could challenge long-standing gender norms and expectations, paving the way for a more equitable and satisfying future.
I invite you to join Cathy and me for this enlightening and thought-provoking discussion. Her ability to tackle complex issues with nuance, empathy, and a touch of humor will undoubtedly leave you with a fresh perspective on the world we live in. And be sure to check out her Substack publication, Sex and the State, for more of her insightful writing and analysis.
Golden light,
Dr. Richard Louis Miller
Links:
Sex and the State Substack - Visit Substack
San Francisco Sex-Positive Democratic Club - Visit Website
Exponents Magazine - Read Articles by Cathy Reisenwitz
Kink and Code - Explore the Column
Huntsville YIMBY (Yes In My Backyard) - Learn More
Note: The link provided is for the general YIMBY movement as specific Huntsville YIMBY resources may vary.
Richard Putnam's "Bowling Alone" - Purchase on Amazon
Harvard University - Visit Official Website
Johns Hopkins University - Visit Official Website
Bhutan's Gross National Happiness - Learn More
Summary:
00:00 Introduction and the Nature of Authoritarianism
03:14 Traits of an Authoritarian Personality
06:41 Violence and Authoritarianism
10:55 Authoritarianism and In-Groups vs. Out-Groups
13:03 Minority Groups and Authoritarianism
15:11 Income Gap and Gender Equality
29:02 Understudied Nature of Human Sexuality
33:39 Sexuality and the Suppression of Knowledge
35:09 Authoritarianism and Fear of Female Sexuality
38:51 Taking Action for Progress
41:18 Social Isolation and Loneliness
43:04 The Decline of Social Connection
45:40 Creating Morale Commissions
48:30 Improving Housing and Quality of Life
51:25 The Impact of Housing on Health and Well-being
54:06 The Need for Genuine Connection
56:11 The Importance of Breathing and Vulnerability
59:14 Overcoming Social Anxiety
01:00:05 Building Connections and Breaking Barriers
My Books
Freeing Sexuality: Psychologists, Consent Teachers, Polyamory Experts, and Sex Workers Speak Out
Psychedelic Wisdom: The Astonishing Rewards of Mind-Altering Substances
Psychedelic Medicine: The Healing Powers of LSD, MDMA, Psilocybin, and Ayahuasca
Integral Psychedelic Therapy (co-edited with Jason A. Butler & Genesee Herzberg)
