Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating.
This is a great reframe that shifts the view of sex as a cost to one's self to a gift to your partner, which gives the giver positive moodlets due to gifting.
This is a great reframe that shifts the view of sex as a cost to one's self to a gift to your partner, which gives the giver positive moodlets due to gifting.