Welcome to Sex and the State, a newsletter about power. I’m a writer working on decriminalizing and destigmatizing all things sex. I synthesize empirical evidence, stories, and personal experience to interrogate existing power structures to propose new, hopefully better, ways of relating.
I had a dream about you last night. I dreamed that we were about to kiss and then I broke the moment by asking you for permission. You thought that was so hysterical that you started laughing and then I started laughing and we never did kiss. 🥺
Chaos wins in the end, but creating order is a better way to pass the time.
There’s a reason we project order on the world.
I had a dream about you last night. I dreamed that we were about to kiss and then I broke the moment by asking you for permission. You thought that was so hysterical that you started laughing and then I started laughing and we never did kiss. 🥺