Friday diary 9: I don’t need to do shit, and other MDMA lessons

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“We need to do Molly ASAP,” I told my partner. This was a Sunday or Monday. The relationship wasn’t going super great. Wednesday evening was the next available time. So it was decided. After work on Wednesday we ate dinner and popped a capsule each. I asked if he wanted to do some intention-setting.